The school of life.

The Professor's father recently asked what I've learned in the past four years.  Here is a non-inclusive list.

I have learned about crossed eyes.

I have learned about buying houses.

I have learned about financing such a purchase.

I have learned that true change is possible.  People can overcome years of bad habits and weakness and become more Christ-like.

I have learned that it is important to allow people to change and to stop treating them as if they hadn't.

I have learned about elementary schools and preschools.

I have learned to be brave about using my simple Spanish with those who don't speak English, and that it is enough.

I have learned that I am part of the problem in my relationships.  I need the forgiveness of others as much as they need mine.

I have learned that the best choices for each person are different.

I have learned about death and grief, abuse and pain.

I have learned that our choices affect those around us profoundly.

I have learned that Christ heals us, even from the worst of life and that healing takes time.

I have learned that we are surrounded by people who are suffering, more than we can imagine.

I have learned that the Lord can use us to ease others' burdens, even if we don't know there are burdens.

I have learned that I can do hard things.

I have learned that anxiety and depression and phobias make daily life difficult.

I have been reminded that there are friends waiting to be made wherever I go.  And that making friends takes time but is very important.